Dating serious single women men
I had a like, 3 year stint of dating basically only women in San Francisco, and not a lot of SF lesbians are super sold on the idea of kids (probably because SF is so expensive and because babies are not a byproduct of lesbian sex.)So, I was like, ah-ha! In a Guardian article, Laurie Penny concisely expressed some of my current frustrations: I’m consistently taken aback by the number of men my age and older who speak offhandedly about their “future children”, without having planned in the slightest for the arrival of these notional sprogs — simply assuming that it’ll happen someday, when they’ve had time to dedicate themselves to their life’s work. Something like 80% of men say they want kids vs 70% of women. Except like, maybe the memo hasn’t gotten around about this child-desiring imbalance? Apparently, more men want kids than women do nowadays.Laurie Penny: ‘Women shouldn’t apologise for the pitter-patter of tiny carbon footprints’I’ll go on dates with guys, who are like “Yeah, I’d like my wife to take my last name, cook for me, and iron my underpants, but I’d never date someone who just wanted to be a stay at home wife.Financially that just doesn’t make sense.”Or, I’d get messages from guys 20 years older than me who didn’t want to date women their own age because they looked “busted.”Or, I’ll talk to male friends who think their romantic relationships are “the most important” factor in their personal happiness, but work 70 hour weeks and devote zero energy to learning the skills of making relationships work. the end result of this is that a lot of men who want kids won’t be able to have kids.Because, despite more men having children than men.
However, they have found, older women get pregnant more easily with young men as well.
In fact, many fertility problems we ascribe to maternal age may actually be exaggerated.